Joshua Fry Speed

Joshua Fry Speed
Portrait of Speed as a young man
Member of the Kentucky House of Representatives
In office 1848–1850
Personal details
Born	(1814-11-14)November 14, 1814 Louisville, Kentucky, U.S.
Died	May 29, 1882(1882-05-29) (aged 67) Louisville, Kentucky, U.S.
Resting place	Cave Hill Cemetery Louisville, Kentucky, U.S.
Spouse	Fanny Henning ​ (m. 1842)​
Parent	John Speed (father)
Occupation	General store co-owner, real estate investor, plantation owner (through family), Kentucky representative
Known for	Abraham Lincoln's best friend and a close confidant

Joshua Fry Speed (November 14, 1814 – May 29, 1882) was an American planter and businessman. He was a close friend of future President Abraham Lincoln from his days in Springfield, Illinois, where Speed was a partner in a general store. He first met Lincoln in 1837. Later, Speed was a farmer and a real estate investor in Kentucky, and also served one term in the Kentucky House of Representatives in 1848.^[1]

Joshua Fry Speed was born at Farmington, Louisville, Kentucky, to Judge John Speed and Lucy Gilmer Speed (née Fry) on November 14, 1814.^[2] On his father's side, Speed's ancestry can be traced back to 17th-century cartographer and historian John Speed.^[3] John Speed's great-grandfather (James Speed) emigrated to Virginia in 1695. James Speed's grandson, Captain James Speed, fought in the American Revolution and was seriously wounded in 1781, resulting in the Continental Congress awarding him 7,500 acres in the territory of Kentucky.^[4] He settled there in 1782 and became a judge and land speculator, eventually accumulating 45,000 acres in central Kentucky and joining the territorial conventions by which Kentucky became separated from Virginia.^[5] One of Captain Speed's six children, John Speed, owned a store in the 1790s and operated a salt works using leased slaves. In the 1800s, his father gave him a large tract on which to begin farming. He grew staples and the labor-intensive cash crop of hemp. He would acquire other businesses as well, including a blacksmith. By his death in 1840, he had become one of Kentucky's largest slave-owners with 54.^[6]

In 1808, following the death of his first wife, John Speed married Lucy Gilmer Fry. She had come from Virginia, where her family was close to Thomas Jefferson. Her father had inherited considerable wealth in land and slaves in Virginia, but left for Kentucky in 1788 or 1789. There, he opened a school in his home, where he taught a number of boys who later became prominent.^[7] Joshua Speed was the fifth of 11 children from the marriage; one of his siblings died in infancy the year Joshua was born. Joshua remained close to his mother until her death, but he seems to have had a strained relationship with his father, who complained of "all your abuse of me" when Joshua was 15.^[8] Depression seems to have run in the family, with evidence in his father, two of his brothers—James Speed showed signs of clinical depression—and Joshua himself.^[9] Lincoln even observed this in Joshua, remarking, "You are 'naturally of a nervous temperament.'"^[10]

Despite having had little formal education himself, Joshua's father wanted his children to have that advantage. Joshua was tutored by his maternal grandfather, Joshua Fry, and attended St. Joseph's College near Bardstown. Before completing college, however, he fell ill. He returned home and, despite his father's opposition, argued that he was ready to begin a career.^[11] He spent two to three years as a clerk in the largest wholesale establishment in Louisville.^[12] He then moved to Springfield, Illinois.

Speed decided to try his fortune in the Midwest; in 1835 he set out for Springfield, Illinois. At the time, Springfield had a population of fewer than 1,500 people. Almost immediately upon arriving there, Speed engaged in merchandising and assisted in editing a local newspaper.

Speed had heard young Abraham Lincoln deliver a speech on a stump when Lincoln was running for election to the Illinois legislature. On April 15, 1837, Lincoln arrived at Springfield, the new state capital, to seek his fortune as a young lawyer, whereupon he met Joshua Speed. Lincoln sublet Joshua's apartment above Speed's store, becoming his roommate, sharing a bed with him for four years, and becoming his lifelong best friend.^[13] Although bed-sharing between same sexes was a reasonably common practice in this period, this has led to speculation, including by Professor Thomas Balcerski, regarding Lincoln's sexuality.^[14]

On March 30, 1840, Judge John Speed died. Joshua announced plans to sell his store and return to his parents' large plantation house, Farmington, near Louisville, Kentucky. Lincoln, though notoriously awkward and shy around women, was then engaged to Mary Todd, a vivacious society young woman also from Kentucky. As the dates approached for both Speed's departure and Lincoln's marriage, Lincoln broke the engagement on the planned day of the wedding, January 1, 1841. Speed departed as planned, leaving Lincoln mired in depression and guilt.

Seven months later, in July 1841, Lincoln, still depressed, decided to visit Speed in Kentucky. Speed welcomed Lincoln to his paternal house, where the latter spent a month regaining his mental health. During his stay at Farmington, Lincoln rode into Louisville almost daily to discuss legal matters of the day with Attorney James Speed, Joshua's older brother. James Speed lent Lincoln books from his law library.^[15]

Joshua Speed and Lincoln disagreed over slavery, especially Speed's argument that Northerners should not care. In 1855, Lincoln wrote to Speed:

You know I dislike slavery; and you fully admit the abstract wrong of it. ... I also acknowledge your rights and my obligations, under the constitution, in regard to your slaves. I confess I hate to see the poor creatures hunted down, and caught, and carried back to their stripes, and unrewarded toils; but I bite my lip and keep quiet. In 1841, you and I had together a tedious low-water trip, on a Steam Boat from Louisville to St. Louis. You may remember, as I well do, that from Louisville to the mouth of the Ohio, there were, on board, ten or a dozen slaves, shackled together with irons. That sight was a continued torment to me; and I see something like it every time I touch the Ohio, or any other slave-border. It is hardly fair for you to assume, that I have no interest in a thing which has, and continually exercises, the power of making me miserable. You ought rather to appreciate how much the great body of the Northern people do crucify their feelings ...^[16]

During Lincoln's presidential administration (March 4, 1861 – April 15, 1865), he offered Speed several government appointments. Speed refused each time, choosing to help in other ways. Speed disagreed with Lincoln on the slavery question but remained loyal, and coordinated Union activities in Kentucky during the American Civil War. His brother, James Speed, served as Lincoln's United States Attorney General, beginning in November 1864. In explaining the nomination to Congress, Lincoln acknowledged that he did not know James as well as he knew Joshua.^[17]

After the assassination of Lincoln by John Wilkes Booth, Speed organized a memorial service in Louisville for the departed leader. He also pledged his support to the new President Andrew Johnson administration (April 15, 1865, to March 3, 1869). Sixty members of the Speed family gave money for a monument to honor Lincoln in Springfield. Joshua Speed also wrote lengthy letters to William Herndon, a former law partner of Lincoln who had set about to write a biography of Lincoln.

Joshua Speed died on May 29, 1882, in Louisville, Kentucky. He is interred in Cave Hill Cemetery in Louisville.^[18] His family's estate, Farmington, is now listed on the National Register of Historic Places, and while the farm is substantially reduced in size, the house has been restored and has become a local event venue, and the focus of living history events.^[19]

In 1999, the author and gay activist Larry Kramer claimed that he had uncovered new primary sources which shed fresh light on Lincoln's sexuality. The alleged sources included a hitherto-unknown Joshua Speed diary and letters in which it was claimed Speed wrote explicitly about his relationship with Lincoln. The items were supposedly discovered hidden beneath the floorboards of the old store in which the two men lived, and they were said to reside in a private collection in Davenport, Iowa.^[20] Kramer died in 2020 and apparently never produced or showed anyone the supposed documents^[21] although he published a novel in 2015, including some of his ideas about Speed and Lincoln that historian and psychoanalyst, Charles Strozier, found unconvincing as a matter of history or sexuality.^[22] The historian Gabor Boritt, referring to the alleged documents, wrote, "Almost certainly this is a hoax...."^[23]

Joshua Speed's father, Judge John Speed, was born in Charlotte County, Virginia. John was first married to Abby Lemaster. They had four children, two of whom died in infancy:

• Thomas Speed
• Mary Speed (born 1800)
• Eliza Speed (born 1805)
• James Speed

John was then married to Lucy Gilmer Fry. Lucy was born in Albemarle County, Virginia. They had eleven children:

• Thomas Speed (September 15, 1809 – 1812)
• Lucy Fry Speed (February 26, 1811 – 1893). Later married to James D. Breckinridge.
• James Speed (March 11, 1812 – June 12, 1887)
• Peachy Walker Speed (May 4, 1813 – January 18, 1881)
• Joshua Fry Speed (1814–1882)
• William Pope Speed (April 26, 1816 – June 28, 1863)
• Susan Fry Speed (September 30, 1817 – 1888)
• Major Philip Speed (April 12, 1819 – November 1, 1882)
• John Smith Speed (January 1, 1821 – 1886)
• Martha Bell Speed (September 8, 1822 – 1903)
• Ann Pope Speed (November 5, 1831 – 1838)

Joshua Speed began a courtship with Fanny Henning and married on February 15, 1842.^[24] They remained married until his death. They had no children.

Fanny Henning Speed bequested a large amount to Union College in Barbourville, Kentucky, and Speed Hall, listed on the National Register, is named for her.^[25]

• Abe Lincoln in Illinois (1940) played by Minor Watson
• Lincoln (1992) made-for-TV documentary voiced by Laurence Luckinbill
• Abraham Lincoln, Vampire Hunter (2010), a novel by Seth Grahame-Smith, and the subsequent film adaptation (2012) played by Jimmi Simpson
• Courting Mr. Lincoln (2019). a historical novel by Louis Bayard, centering on Lincoln's relationships with Mary Todd and Joshua Speed in Springfield.

• List of people from the Louisville metropolitan area
• Louisville in the American Civil War
• Sexuality of Abraham Lincoln

• Basler, Roy P., ed. (1953). Collected Works of Abraham Lincoln. New Brunswick, New Jersey: Rutgers University Press. LCCN 53006293.
• Bush, Bryan S. (2008). Lincoln and the Speeds: The Untold Story of a Devoted and Enduring Friendship. Morley, Missouri: Acclaim Press. ISBN 9780979880261.
• Collins, Lewis; Collins, Richard H. (1874). History of Kentucky. Vol. 2. Covington, Kentucky: Collins & Co.
• Howard, Victor B. (Summer 1982). "Lincoln Slave Policy in Kentucky: A Study of Pragmatic Strategy". The Register of the Kentucky Historical Society. 80 (3): 281–308. JSTOR 23379497.
• Kincaid, Robert L. (April 1943). "Joshua Fry Speed—1814–1882, Abraham Lincoln's Most Intimate Friend" (PDF). The Filson Club History Quarterly. 17 (2). Retrieved May 4, 2024.
• Kincaid, Robert L. (April 1954). "Joshua Fry Speed: Lincoln's Confidential Agent in Kentucky". The Register of the Kentucky Historical Society. 52 (179): 99–110. JSTOR 23373760.
• Krause, Susan (Spring 1996). "Abraham Lincoln and Joshua Speed, Attorney and Client". Illinois Historical Journal. 89 (1): 35–50. JSTOR 40193006.
• Olson, Julius E. (September 1920). "Lincoln in Wisconsin". The Wisconsin Magazine of History. 4 (1): 44–54. JSTOR 4630278.
• Paludan, Phillip Shaw (Summer 2006). "Lincoln and Negro Slavery: I Haven't Got Time for the Pain". Journal of the Abraham Lincoln Association. 27 (2): 1–23. JSTOR 20149097.
• Speed, Joshua F. (1896). Reminiscences of Abraham Lincoln and Notes of a Visit to California: Two Lectures. Louisville, Kentucky: Printed by the Bradley & Gilbert Co.
• Strozier, Charles B. (2016). Your Friend Forever, A. Lincoln: The Enduring Friendship of Abraham Lincoln and Joshua Speed. New York: Columbia University Press. ISBN 9780231171328.

Wikimedia Commons has media related to Joshua Fry Speed.

• Farmington website
• A genealogy of Joshua Speed's maternal ancestors since the 17th century (archived)
• Lincoln 1855 letter to Joshua Speed (archived)
• Mr. Lincoln and Friends: Joshua F. Speed at the Wayback Machine (archived March 12, 2016)
• "Joshua and James Speed" — Article by Civil War historian/author Bryan S. Bush
• Joshua Fry Speed at Find a Grave