My Dearest Enemy

My Dearest Enemy
Directed by	Bernard Dufour Francois Rabatth
Produced by	Nelka Films
Release date	2004 (2004)
Running time	60 minutes
Country	Israel
Language	English

My Dearest Enemy is an Israeli documentary that takes a behind-the-scenes look at Israel's secret diplomacy by sharing the highly anticipated meeting between Israeli Amnon Lipkin-Shahak and Palestinian Hani El Hassan—both powerful leaders in opposite camps.

The film follows a heated conference between two men who have the power to instigate change. Amnon was the chief-of-staff of Israel's military, and Hani was one of Yasser Arafat’s right-hand men. The filmmakers worked exhaustingly to organize this unofficial meeting between two powerful people who have more in common than might be expected.

“We’ve worked on this handshake for more than a year,” the filmmaker says as Amnon enters the room and greets Hani.

This is the first time that the two leaders have met face to face, but it's not the first time they've come in contact with each other. In 1968, Amnon led an Israeli offensive that faced Palestinian guerrilla soldiers led by Hani, and in 1973 both men were in Beirut during Israel's raid on Lebanon. Now, instead of interacting from behind guns, the two sit comfortably in an air-conditioned room, talking over finely prepared meals and red wine.

But instead of staying fixed in the conference room, the film offers a glimpse into Amnon and Hani's personal lives to expose the roots of their political beliefs. Breaking from his discussions with Amnon, Hani goes to visit his childhood home in Haifa, which has now become the holy site of Elija’s tomb. The day trip stirs up resentment and frustration in Hani, who is forced to remember his bitter, violent departure from the home that had been the peaceful sanctuary of his youth. Walking beside the stone walls, he remembers how Israeli Haganah soldiers spoke disrespectfully to his mother and abused him before forcing the family to leave their home. “Amnon always talks of trust,” Hani says, “but how can I trust someone who stole my land and who takes a little bit more of it every day?”

Other Israeli documentaries about the conflict between Israelis and Palestinians:

• The Land of the Settlers
• All Hell Broke Loose
• At the Green Line
• Nadia's Friend
• Reach for the Sky

• "My Dearest Enemy". Europa Images. Archived from the original on 2008-10-23. Retrieved 2008-10-20.
• "My Dearest Enemy". The Jewish Channel. Retrieved 2008-10-20.

• The Jewish Channel's review
• The distributor's website